11 October 2001

Inner Critic

Adult
Critical Parent
Nurturing Parent
Playfull Child
Pleasing Child

Die lewe is 'n balans tussen die 5 areas van ontwikkeling.
Mens moet Adult genoeg wees om besluite intelektueel te neem om jouself te beskerm, maar nie so veel dat jy jou gevoelens verontagsaam nie.
You need to be critical enough to learn from your mistakes, but not so critical that you undermine the playfull child.
You can be a Critical Parent, but no so much that you hurt the pleasing child
You can be a Pleasing Child, but no so much that you undermine the Nurturing Parent.
You can be a Nurturing Parent, but not so much that you neglect your Playfull Child
You can be a Playfull Child, but no so much that you embarrase the Adult
You can be a Adult, but no so much that you undermine all the others

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